For young children: your best approach is to sit with them
anytime they are online. Join in on their digital activities, ask questions and
learn with them as they grow.
For tweens and teens: the most effective strategy is
guidance, keep communication open and positive. Have them show you the sites
they visit, and tell you a little bit about that site and what it is used for.
Below are some helpful internet tips to start, or continue
these conversations with your children:
Think before clicking
When children get unexpected messages, even from friends,
tell them not to open any attachments. This includes photos, songs, videos or
any other attachments within that message. Instead, they should check with the
sender by some means other than hitting “reply."
Talk to your children about downloading any software, games,
music or any other content.
Share with care
Be sure children understand that they should never give out
any personal information such as full name, age, photos, home and email
address, phone number, or school name online.
Children should only post what they are comfortable with
Be smart about mobile phones
Help children lock their phones with PINs – and remind them
not to share their PIN with anyone
Teach children to use GPS cautiously because it can be used
to pinpoint where they are or tag the location of their photos.
Before downloading apps
Playing online games
Talk to your children about the kind of games they want to
play, and then review the ratings. Stick to the well-known games and those from
reputable sites. Together create guidelines for safe online gaming:
Should children play with just friends, friends and family,
or with anyone?
How many hours a day or week are appropriate?
Will you allow them to use a webcam, text or voice features,
and if so with whom?
Talk to your children about what to do if there are problems
Encourage children to trust their instincts. Ask them to:
Tell you if something or someone online makes them feel
uncomfortable or threatened. Be clear that you will not punish them or take
away online privileges because of someone else’s actions.
Report objectionable behavior or content to the service or
Never meet an online “friend” in person without safeguards
in place. Be sure they understand that they should talk with you to create a
safe plan for meeting someone. Children should bring along a trusted adult and
meet in a public place like a coffee shop, or library.
If your child is in immediate danger – someone threatens,
harasses, or tries to lure your child into meeting in person, call the local